As you all are aware that I use EFT for all my clients, for me to get good results is a very routine thing. but I felt the need to pen down this experience because firstly we were able to resolve the issue in only three sessions and secondly the root cause of the anxiety that the client was experiencing was going back almost a decade.
A lady client in the early 40s came for the counselling as she was having over the top anxiety about her son who is 9 years old. she was anxious that as she had the son late in her 30s she may not be around for him when he grows up , she also had some physical issues that was making her more anxious.
So she when we explored the reasons for her anxiety logically she was aware that logically she does not have to go over the top about her worry but she could not help but worry about it.
She was constantly ruminating over the thought of her death. when I asked her is she experienced similar feeling earlier in her life, she said she felt similar feelings at the time of her grandmother’s demise.
when she was speaking about it, I could hear distress in her voice (It was a telephonic session). I asked her to tap for a while till the distress comes down and as expected the distress became very less. Then she continued her story…it seems that her grandmother passed away very unexpectedly, and she did not get the chance to talk to her before she expired and the client was carrying lot of weightage about it.
In the second and third session we cleared the feelings associated with the death of her grandmother and unpredictability of the life. And the unpredictability is what was creating so much of anxiety in her.
We did not even have to deal with her recent fears, they just disappeared.
After a month of follow up she reported free from unnecessary anxiety and worry about her death or worry about who will take care of her son.
I am in no way saying that all my clients gets relief so fast, as in some cases we have to explore many layers of experience and that takes many more sessions.
Hope you enjoyed this read.
Warm Regards
Neha Mehta
Emotional Freedom Centre 